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‘I was connected again to those I love’: authors on meeting up with

Picnic in Greenwich park by Elise Wortley

It had actually been months given that the 6 of us had got together for our weekly after work drink, normally in a crowded central London pub, where we ‘d be screaming to hear each other above the noise.

Worried with excitement, and desperate to see my friends in the flesh once again, I roamed the mile or two down to Greenwich. Uncommonly busy for a Monday evening, the park’s green locations were speckled with small groups of people who had all had the same concept. Waiting by the park entryway I heard a familiar sound– Annie’s laugh can always fill a room, even over Zoom. When I saw her face, followed by the four others bobbing towards me, it took all my strength not to run over and hug them

On a high, with our picnic in hand, we followed the course up to Greenwich Observatory. As my social anxieties relieved, I barely observed the steep hills we were climbing up, everybody completely sidetracked by one another’s company.

It took all my strength not to run over and hug them.

We exchanged long stories of doing nothing, weaving our method in between budding oak trees and spots of yellow-white daffodils. Away from the crowds, we sat on a grassy bank to enjoy the sundown over our own view of the city– far better than any beer garden. With a set of south London’s popular green parakeets chattering above us, we consumed our wine, ate our snacks and savoured every word the others needed to say.

For the first time in months, I forgot my tension and worries about the future. I was linked when again to those I like, and material with a little taste of the summertime yet to come.

Find out about Elise’s adventures in the steps of pioneering ladies at womanwithaltitude.com

A walk to Egypt Bay, north Kent, by Carol Donaldson

It is the stories I have actually missed out on the most, I choose, as I head through the woodlands of the RSPB Northward Hill nature reserve en path to the marshes. Those tales that combine, one into another, like wind ripples on sand. Stories like this only take place, it seems, when a group of people walk together.

Bronach, Simon, Phoebe and I are on the Hoo peninsula in Kent, strolling from the town of High Halstow to the isolated shores of the Thames at Egypt Bay. Villagers here as soon as kept watch for revenue males, who patrolled this coastline on the lookout for smugglers. A light shining from a bedroom window would indicate the all clear to the black-sailed ships waiting off coast with their freights of brandy.

I confess I was a little anxious at the idea of a group walk. I have grown utilized to the intimacy of two on lockdown strolls along night-time streets, however we should all emerge from the darkness, and the wide skies of the estuary are the place to do so

We should all emerge from the darkness, and the wide skies of the estuary are the place to do so.

We pass watery meadows where lapwings tumble in a spring frenzy across the skies, scrambling with the geese flying north to their Arctic breeding grounds. At Egypt Bay, we stand on a beach of white shells where the “tubsmen” offloaded contraband goods while their women stayed at home and worried for their security.

It is a world of contrast. Over the water, the cranes of the London Gateway extremely port stride across the skyline; here curlews call on the salt marsh and the shadows of the previous peer over my shoulder.

Ships are heading out to sea, bound for foreign ports. I can’t follow them, yet, however strolling with a group has actually brought with it new voices, fresh point of views, travel for the mind. In the meantime, a minimum of, it suffices.

Carol Donaldson is the author of On the Marshes: A Journey Into England’s Waterlands (Little Toller Books, ₤ 10).

Keeping up pals in the Lakes by Eileen Jones

We have actually Zoomed every Saturday to keep the spirit of parkrun alive, my friends and I from Fell Foot. And with one I have actually done a 5k not-parkrun each week, our own version of the genuine thing. But there’s absolutely nothing like the environment of a packrun, even if we were only 6 in number. We’re back on house ground at Fell Foot, beside Windermere, where our group assisted set up a parkrun seven years back.

It’s not particularly uneven by Lake District standards; we call it Cumbrian flat, those people who train on the higher fells. However we’re proud and pleased to be back here, even if the going is “soft”, as they state in racing. The other day a few of the courses were underwater.

This is about a lot more than running. It is shared enjoyment, belonging to a community once again.

We head south to the meadow, remembering our good friend and coworker John Nettleton, 92, a regular marshal here, who died at Christmas. Then turn and head back along the lakeside with the moored boats a flotilla-at-ease, looking north to the Fairfield Horseshoe and west to the Coniston series of hills. It’s not a race, despite the fact that I wonder once again why I can’t stay up to date with Cecilia. Margaret, run-marshal in chief, yells her familiar prompting to keep us going up the hill from coffee shop corner.

Andy’s been training for ultra-marathons and puts in more miles in a week than I have actually managed up until now this year. But he enjoys to go at the pace of the slowest. I’m at the back with Kevin– a fellow Guy United supporter– discussing his newest book suggestions– Grayson Perry and John Cooper Clarke.

Running has to do with much more than putting one foot in front of the other. This is fellowship, the shared enjoyment of the simplest of pleasures, a sense of being part of a community as soon as again.

Eileen Jones’ brand-new book is How Parkrun Changed Our Lives (Gritstone, ₤ 9.99).

An outside swim in Surrey by Ella Foote

If it had not been for his pet dog, Beano, I wouldn’t have actually identified my good friend Jonny under his mass of strawberry blonde curls– never have I seen him with a lot hair. It is the first thing everyone notices as we gather in a parking area on Chobham Common in Surrey. We do that uncomfortable resistance dance of combating our impulses to welcome each other. I make hug shapes with my arms out large and internally groan at the embarrassment of it all. We laugh and sort of represent a minute not stating anything.

After the very first lockdown it was a huge relief to see individuals outside once again. This time round, after a year of various limitations, it feels absolutely various– a lot clumsier and more anxious. This week’s mini heatwave is welcome as we head towards a pond. We are a little team of swimming journalists, and being stuck inside really does not fit us.

We do that awkward resistance dance of fighting our instincts to accept each other.

We all reside in different counties near the M25, so Surrey is a sort of midpoint. Our swim location is a random pond on heathland: it has peaty amber water and is best in spring or deep winter (in summertime it dries up). It looks a little bleak given that a wildfire damaged much of the surrounding typical in 2015, but it does not discourage my fellow swimmers and me.

In our current virtual meetings you might hear a pin drop, however within minutes of being in each other’s company we can’t stop talking. A few of us have actually managed to swim a little through winter season; others have not remained in the water given that before Christmas. We laugh and whoop. One swims circles, another widths. Beano wags his tail, flicking pond water over scattered clothes and towels. Someone pours the coffee. We are connected once again.

Ella Foote is a contributing editor to Outdoor Swimmer magazine and runs directed swims as the Dip Consultant.

Nightwalking on the South Downs by Dixe Wills

One of the advantages of nightwalking throughout a pandemic is that there are generally so couple of other people about that social distancing is a given. Last year, friends and I took advantage of this throughout the guideline of six durations, so discovered the cutting of such activities throughout this lockdown especially wearisome. I have actually been out by myself on numerous nights this winter but, enjoyable though the experience usually is, it’s not rather the exact same.

So, as soon as constraints were raised this week, a few people triggered on a nighttime jaunt on to the South Downs from our different homes in Lewes, East Sussex.

The brightness of a nearly moon turned the milky course so white it appeared like snow underneath our feet. We climbed through fields where the Battle of Lewes was fought over 7 centuries back and, more prosaically, by the area where we often see badgers. Entering our stride, we hiked on beside the broad track of the old racecourse, dipping into a tunnel of high hedges flecked with tiny pinpricks of white– a statement that the hawthorns were waking from their winter season sleep. And at last we came to Mount Harry. This high point offers fine panoramas throughout the Sussex Weald by day, and a festival of lights marking towns, hamlets and farms by night.

Seeing buddies’ faces blanched by the moonlight, rather than pixellated by my bad wifi connection, was jubilant.

Finding a sheltered spot in the lee of some gorse bushes, we toasted the night in sweet, carbonated, intense blue moscato (undoubtedly, requirements have slipped somewhat during the lockdown). This easy act, with good friends whose faces were blanched by the moonlight rather than pixellated by my poor wifi connection, was joyous.

The pole star that pointed us towards the far-off North Downs was soon eaten up by clouds. Nevertheless, dependable Orion shone on us for most of our walk, a reassuring suggestion that what we’re going through now is but a simple stumble in the long, long march of time.

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